Community of Lovers: Part III - What is everyday life like in a new culture?

In the second blog about the ‘Community of Lovers’, I talked about the development phases of a community and explained what is important to me. Now I would like to describe what everyday life looks like in these phases.

Tower of lovers: source: Alphachanneling

We want to become more refined in our everyday lives. We want to welcome the new alongside our ‘old’ life. Are you already on your way? Do you know the old and want to change it? Or what was there is no longer there (relationship, job, health, ...)?

Life may have already given you a good shove. This is an invitation to rethink your focus. If you carry on as before, then you don't need to read any further. Or use the impulses to change your focus?

Do you now have the strength to come together with others to rediscover yourself? Or do you need to go into silence and solitude first?

Will the ‘community of lovers’ be your next step?

This requires an interest in your own personal development. This means regularly building time into your everyday life to become more aware of yourself and your surroundings, and to reflect on and share your thoughts and feelings.

TAKE A BREAK.

Entrance of the paradise garden in Arambol (Goa/India)

This is achieved through your own daily practice and regular meetings with others. Do you have this, or would you like to be inspired?

This is what it could look like...... First phase ‘Where is your focus’ (related to the previous blog number II)

Everyone brings an interest in personal development, healing, and change. There is no property or project yet. No property or house is bought.

Once or twice a week, everyone who can come to a meeting. We sit in an undisturbed room for about 2 to 3 hours. We listen carefully to what each person wants to share with us. This person has our undivided sympathy so that we have a space in which essential talking and storytelling dissolve by themselves.

It is a circle of people who meet for a period of time on a binding basis in order to better understand and change themselves in the light of others. Or simply want to try something new.

Spending time together regularly is a conscious decision to actively shape a shared space and keep it alive. Various tools and elements that the participants bring with them serve this purpose.

Individual events and wishes such as: Relationship crises, community building, health disorders, shared activities, experiences of violence, fears about the future, job insecurity and other incisive experiences and motivations sooner or later lead us to reflect, to a co-operative approach and to an outcome.

Diversity in simplicity

‘It feels like more!’

Our everyday lives are increasingly characterized by spending our time doing meaningful or creative things. We are inspired by nourishing dialogue, especially with people we meet regularly on a binding basis, as a connection strengthens and trust grows.

The nourishing ground of familiar kinship creates an inner feeling of security, liveliness, generosity, and gratitude.

In addition, all other resistances and problems that ward off ‘the new’ and make us want to withdraw from our box of possibilities also become clearer. The invitation is to look at these ‘complications’ and see them as valuable information and energy, which individually stands in the way of our happiness.

Our body and mind will experience symptoms of stress, excitement, fear, or joy that are directly linked to our dreams and perception.

But going back to a disconnected life is difficult and unattractive.

Over time, more overlaps arise in everyday life. More time is spent together. In our free time and at work, we network with our research and friendship circles. In everyday life, leisure time and working time are merging. This means that activity and being are coming closer together. As people act in relation to each other, the energy level in the system increases. This can mean that conflicts arise and solutions are found, new projects become possible, new relationships develop or intensify, other illnesses and disorders occur and old symptoms disappear.

Needs and consumer behavior change. Through more physical contact and intimate connection, substitute satisfactions in the areas of food, television, computer, sex, sport and other distractions and addictions decrease.

Time for authenticity

The greater togetherness triggers different feelings and thoughts in each individual. When we come together, we learn from each other which feelings of happiness are there and also which demons appear, and painful feelings arise from thoughts.

As everyone understands and experiences that the individual possibilities of the ego can increase through connection and/or is shown to those who cannot yet see and feel it, a dynamic is created. This leads to the next stage of development.

‘Momentum: energy potentiates itself.’

Further power of manifestation is created here. People collectively live in a greater field of possibilities, as their energy level is raised and remains stable. There is more awareness of the process of self-empowerment and the development of potential, and the individual care and self-love of each person generates further magnetism.

everything is connected

People are automatically attracted and want to co-operate or participate.

Since the core, the inner circle, of the new culture has understood that each individual must experience a purification and vitalization of their mind and body before they can resonate, this field of possibility is protected and preserved. In order to unfold the potential further and further, in order to manifest things that are beyond our imagination.

This is where the real progress or evolutionary step that humanity is taking occurs.

In the following parts, I will delve deeper into certain situations and possibilities of togetherness. The content of some empty words will become clearer and more precise!

Tamuh

Dec. / 2024